Where the Baby Is

Today Mara patted my stomach, and suddenly her eyes lit up.

That’s where the baby is!!!!” she exclaimed with “the-light-came-on” inflection.

Yes, at 16-1/2 weeks, I am definitely showing . . . although my husband did point out that most of what’s “showing” is leftover from the last pregnancy, rather than a result of the current one . . . Don’t feel offended for me–I know it’s true–and in time it will come off!!!

But I’ve been holding off on the maternity clothes.

During the first pregnancy, they seem so cute. But by Baby #3, you start to realize that once you put those maternity clothes on, you are wearing them, not just till the end of the pregnancy, but until you slim down enough to fit back into your old clothes. . . Which takes months, almost as long as the pregnancy itself. Which makes the prospect of maternity clothes much less enticing . . .

But during our retreat this weekend, I sat much more than usual (As a SAHM with two toddlers, I’m rarely sitting at home–even during meals). All that sitting made me realize: I really don’t fit in these Gap jeans any more. I’m going to have to break out the maternity clothes!

Thankfully, I have a decent amount of winter maternity clothes from my pregnancy with Micah. So today . . . it’s back to those low-rise maternity jeans from Old Navy . . . For now I can still fit in my pre-pregnancy shirts!!

Our Weekend “Retreat”

We spent the weekend on a retreat with a group from our church. It was a gorgeous, gorgeous weekend. And when you live in the city, there is nothing like a weekend in the mountains near the border of Pennsylvania and New York! While the retreat was slightly challenging for a family with two young toddlers, the kids did have a good time.

Taking toddlers to a new environment, however, requires a great deal of patience on the part of the parents. (Not to say that either of us actually have the required patience.)

For instance, while setting up our room on Friday night, I turned around to see my two children in the bathroom hovering over the toilet. As a mom, I have learned: that is never a good thing!

Mara was whimpering. Micah’s mouth was wide with excitement, as his eyes sparkled.

“Whh,” Mara stammered. “Whhhhhy he throw my shoe in the potty?!?!” She just stared, paralyzed, perplexed.

I ran into the bathroom lunging toward Micah (who, at that point, was reaching his little hand into the toilet) and saw bubbles rising from Mara’s now-submerged leather sandal.

That sandal has seen better days, I thought. Thank goodness summer is almost over.

And it’s a good thing we also brought “fancy shoes” on the retreat! Mara wore those the entire weekend.

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Sunday morning after breakfast, Mara was playing in the main room downstairs with a green toy water gun. A lot of people were milling around, enjoying casual conversation before our first session when one of the other boys about Mara’s age came up and took the gun right out of her hand and ran away.

Mara has not yet learned to handle this well. So she screamed. Loudly.

And as if she didn’t already have everyone’s attention at that point, she began desperately shouting, “I want to shoot some people!”

And when I say “shouting,” I mean the sound echoed through several valleys.

She didn’t say it just once. She kept repeating. Louder. More emphatically. “I want to SHOOT some people!!!!”

You can imagine how you might react at a church retreat, if you hadn’t seen what happened, and suddenly heard this toddler screaming, “I want to shoot some people!!!!”

(We are model parents, I promise.)

So if you’ve never met my daughter Mara, just imagine Fiona from “Burn Notice”–only she has red hair and she’s 2-1/2 and we don’t let her have any real ammunition.

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Discovering Acorns!

We spent the weekend in the mountains at a church retreat, and my kids discovered acorns! And I discovered more acorns in the washing machine after running a load of laundry this afternoon.

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No, I didn’t let him eat it!

They had a great time enjoying the out-of-doors, and I will have several posts this week with more pictures, but for now . . .

I’d better go work on laundry.

And . . .

Micah has his 15-month-old checkup in the morning. . .

Preschool Activity Centers

I’m trying to become more structured before Little Boo comes along, so I’ve made a list of “activity centers” and fun activities (indoor and outdoor) to keep my preschoolers occupied. I figured we will not be getting out as much in the winter (during my 3rd trimester/delivery/adjusting to a new baby) so I am trying to plan ahead so Mara and Micah don’t get bored!

A lot of these activities are taken from a Gymboree’s book Toddler Play (the page numbers reference that book).

This is an ever-growing list, so I would love to receive comments and input from other moms to add to or enhance the activities listed!

Activity Centers Supervised/Unsupervised
Playdoh/clay Supervised
Watercolor Paint/Paint Book Supervised
Coloring w Crayons/Markers/Pencils Supervised
Finger Paints Supervised
Felt Board Stories, etc. Supervised
Trains!! Supervised
Playing with Dolls Supervised/Unsupervised
Puzzles Unsupervised
Dollhouse Unsupervised
Blocks Unsupervised
Daisy & Stacking Cups Unsupervised
Reading Books (Book Time!) Unsupervised
Legos Unsupervised
Shapes to Fit Unsupervised
Cars & Trucks (when he’s older) Unsupervised
Lincoln Logs (when he’s older) Unsupervised
Together Games Inside/Outside Gymboree
Unwrap the gift (favorite toys) Inside p.87
Plastic/Cardboard Tube w tennis balls (Where’d the ball go?) Inside p.96
Magnet fun on a cookie sheet! Inside p.103
Pony Rides Inside p. 111
Pretend “Aquarium” Inside p.117
Scarf Tricks (Throwing, catching) Inside p.118
Phone Fun (Practice talking on the phone with old/pretend phone) Inside p.119
Bean Bag Bowling Inside p.121
Playing Dress-Up (container of clothes/hats/scarves/shoes/boots) Inside p.124
Bathtime for BabyDoll/other doll play Inside p. 126, 142
Memory Game with Magic Cups Inside p.131
Purse Treasures (real stuff that’s ok to play with: old keys, mirror, notepad; wallet; etc.) Inside p.135
Feel & Guess what’s in the pillowcase?! Inside p.136
Matching shoes w their mates Inside p. 140
Wiffle balls threaded on rope between chairs Inside p.144
Flashlight Hide and Seek (objects) Inside p.149
Blindfolded: Guess the Scents?? Inside p.154
Cut & Glue Magazine Pics: Collages Inside p.161
Mimes/Acting: Tea party; Baking a cake; flying an airplane; cleaning house; galloping around on a horse Inside p. 164
Matching colors of cars/trucks on pieces of construction paper Inside p. 166
Dancing w Flying Streamers (Ribbons) Inside p. 170
Sorting shapes; balls & blocks mixed up Inside p. 175
Count and seek (3 or more similar items: cups, shoes, spoons/balls) Inside p. 176
MusicMakers (Plastic bottles w beans, rice, pennies,etc.) Inside p.67
Family Photo Fun (learning, remembering, praying for relatives) Inside p.70
Open Shut Them Inside p. 104
Puppets Inside p.107
Recording voices on the computer Inside p.58
Parachute/Blanket Play Inside
Walk/crawl the pillow course Inside p. 36
Music from the Kitchen Cabinet Inside p.44
Reading Books Inside
Plastic Jars: w interesting items Inside
Mirror Faces Inside p.60
Nesting games (Cups/Bowls/Etc.) Inside p.64
Parade (tie wheeled toys together; decorate w ribbons, streamers) Inside/Outside p.90
Baby Basketball (w bowl/laundry basket) Inside/Outside p.93
Walking on a balance beam (board) Inside/Outside p.106
Pretend “Train Trips” around house Inside/Outside p. 108
Throwing Balls into Water-filled Bowls Inside/Outside p. 145
Jumping & Landing on Target Inside/Outside p. 158
Paper megaphone: learning about tone, direction, volume of voice; amplifying silly songs; etc. Inside/Outside p. 169
Magnifying Glasses Inside/Outside p. 172
Sorting by size: 3 paper bags (S/M/L) and a big pile of leaves Inside/Outside p. 177
Help groom/feed the dogs Inside/Outside p.179
Imitating Animal Sounds/Actions Inside/Outside p. 180-1
Roll the ball/Beach Ball Toss Inside/Outside p. 24, 105
Hide and Seek Inside/Outside p.79
Talk About the Body (Where’s your nose? Etc.) Inside/Outside p.82
Nature Walk & Collage (Find feather, leaves, flowers, grass, sticks, stones, etc.) Outside p.85
Tree Walk/Talk (Leaves, trunks, roots, branches; creatures’ homes; acorns, leaves, pinecones, bark, etc) Outside p.101
Visit PetCo!!!! Find all the animals Outside
Blowing Bubbles Outside
Sand Play (Toys, kitchen utensils; garden tools) Outside

Micah at 15 Months: Part I

Initially I wanted to do a “Micah at One Year” post, but that thought occurred to me three months ago. . . so now it’s “Micah at 15 months.”

I am always amazed when I look back to old posts, even a few months back, and see how far the kids have come developmentally or how different our daily life has become in such a short amount of time. It all goes by so quickly that I literally forget what they were like, even a couple months back. I don’t want to forget. So here it is, mostly for my benefit, and possibly a few family members who find it interesting as well.

Verbal/Nonverbal Communication:

Micah still only babbles. He says, “Da-da-da-da,” “Na-na-na-na,” and “Aaaa!” but that’s about it. We think he has said “Da-da” (meaning “Daddy”), but we are certain that he has never said “Mama.” 🙂

Daniel and I have talked about it a lot, because he is probably a good six months behind where Mara was at this age. She could say, “Dada,” “Mama,” “ball,” and a few other words before her first birthday. She was babbling the way Micah is now around 10 months. So even adjusted for his prematurity, he’s still several months behind Mara.

But when we look at his development overall, we really aren’t concerned about Micah. His hearing is definitely fine, and his comprehension seems excellent.

A few examples:

  • Whenever we say his name, he turns around to see what we’re talking about, often smiling mischievously, if it’s a story about him.
  • We say: “I’m going to feed the fish,” he leads you to the fish bowl or goes there himself and stares at the fish till you feed it.
  • We say: “Let’s go for a walk,” he goes straight to the stroller or stands by the front door.
  • He has a dirty diaper, so he pulls a diaper and wipes out of the diaper bag and starts hitting his diaper until I come change him.
  • He signs “more” and “all done” at meals.
  • He pulls on his toes when he wants to play “This Little Piggy” on the changing table, or signs “mark it with a ‘b’ and toss it in the oven” if he wants to play “Patty-Cake.”
  • We say: “Are you ready to go ‘night-night’?” and he heads for the stairs, clutching the nearest piece of fabric (for a blanket) and sucking his thumb. (One time he pulled my panties out of the laundry basket and clutched them to his chest, sucking his thumb! LOL! . . . I didn’t take a picture . . .)

We feel like if he’s understanding our communication, he will verbalize in time. And he has his 15-month-old checkup in a few weeks, so we can ask the pediatrician to be sure.

He loves to imitate sounds. Last night he perked up, having heard a dog barking outside. Then he did his best little doggie imitation; it was adorable! . . . Recently I sat down and sighed deeply after a busy morning; ever since, he has been “sighing” a humongous sigh, and then grinning mischievously. Sometimes if I’m frustrated at myself, I do this little growl: “Argggghhh.” Which Micah of course has picked up, and he WAY over-uses it!! It’s crazy how much kids notice, even the littlest things you do. But it is good to be reminded that I am modeling life for these little ones, who will imitate me whether I want them to or not!

Activity:

Micah walks everywhere! It wasn’t until about 14-1/2 months that walking became his primary way of getting around. We laugh because he looks so awkward, but as Daniel reminds me, that’s why they call them ‘toddlers.’

He loves rolling balls. Even better: throwing balls! and he’s actually pretty good at it–well, for a 15-month-old, that is.

He enjoys Legos and blocks, putting things together.

But he has yet to willingly sit still through an entire book. He doesn’t even care to look at the pictures. Occasionally he will look at the cover of a book! (In contrast, Mara was about 13 months old, when I remember counting as she brought me 13 books, one after another, and climbed up into my lap for me to read them to her! Such a difference!)

Food:

What can I say?! He loves all of it!! And he eats man-sized portions already!

He may eat bacon, eggs, toast for breakfast. Or muffins or banana bread. Or french toast, waffles, or pancakes (no syrup yet!). Or oatmeal & applesauce. He loves bananas! He would eat one every morning if I let him! He loves most fruit: especially strawberries, blueberries, grapes, and watermelon too.

If we are eating it, he wants it: roast beef, mashed potatoes, tacos, ham, sweet potatoes, green beans, hot dogs, french fries, popcorn, rice cakes, potato salad, chili, potato chips, meatballs, chicken (in almost any form–baked chicken, chicken nuggets, chicken tenders. . .). He likes peanut Butter and jelly sandwiches, but I don’t. Because when he is finished eating his sandwich, his entire head and arms are covered with sticky jelly and greasy peanut butter. It is amazing what a big mess he can make with one sandwich! (Oh, and he does eat an entire sandwich himself–while Mara eats 1/4 – 1/2 sandwich!) He also enjoys grilled cheese sandwiches and they are not nearly as messy!

For the most part, he is a good eater, but we have a few foods we are “working on.” He is not fond of pasta, which is frustrating because that includes macaroni and cheese, spaghetti, pasta salad. . . He also is not a broccoli lover, like Mara is! But he still has to have a couple bites. 🙂

Of course, he loves anything with sugar: cake, cookies, ice cream, jello, animal crackers . . . all of which we try to limit, for obvious reasons.

to be continued . . .