Mara Recites the Pledge of Allegiance (with help)

Mara turned 19 months old yesterday. She mimics everything we say and everything we do! It can be funny at times–hysterically funny–and it can be a little frightening too!

Here, Mara recites the pledge of allegiance, with help from Mommy:
Mommy: “I pledge allegiance . . . ”
Mara: “Wee-jis” (legiance)
Mommy: “to the flag”
Mara: “thlaaa” (flag)
Mommy: “Of the United States”
Mara: “Tase” (states)
Mommy: “of America”
Mara: “Mayo-wih” (‘merica)
Mommy: “. . . and to the republic. . .”
Mara: “Pub-wic”
Mommy: ” . . . for which it stands. .? .”
Mara: “DAN!!!!!” (quite emphatically; “st” sounds are always “d”s–“store” = door; “star” = “dar”)
Mommy: “. . . one nation. .? .”
Mara: “Nay-none”
Mommy: “Under God. . .”
Mara: “Dawwwww” (This is how she says “God,” and she says it dramatically, with eyes wide, as if gravely important)
Mommy: “Indivisible. . .”
Mara: “do-wid-do-wool”
Mommy: “With liberty . . . ”
Mara: “Ter-tee”
Mommy: “And Justice. . .”
Mara: “Dus-dis”
Mommy: “For all.”
Mara: “AWWWWWWL!”

Micah’s Due Date

Well, finally Micah’s due date has arrived. According to the doctors, he was due Thursday, July 24, and he had an appointment with the pediatrician, Dr. Kantor, that day. In addition to giving his 2nd hepatitis B shot, Dr. Kantor weighed and measured him. He is now a whopping 7 lbs., 2 ozs.! I think he has been eating very well! I was hoping he would weigh about 6-1/2 lbs., so I was very excited. He is also 19-1/2 inches long, 2-1/4 inches longer than he was at birth! What a growing boy!! Maybe that growth in length explains why he still doesn’t have much fat on his little bones. 🙂

The best news of the day is that Dr. Kantor thought it would be fine to take him out of the house at this point! So we went shopping. Micah’s first shopping trip with Mommy! We went to Franklin Mills, and he was a trooper! We found deals on kids’ clothes at Childrens’ Place and Carter’s, and then I got Daniel new jeans and khakis at Levi’s Strauss and Marshalls. Since I hadn’t eaten anything all day (except the coffee Daniel french-pressed for me in the morning), I stopped at Arby’s for dinner. They gave me the wrong sandwich, so once they corrected my order, I ended up getting the other sandwich (a market fresh ham n swiss) for free–Daniel’s lunch for tomorrow!! 🙂

Mara spent the day at the Jersey shore with Darla & Diane . . . and Jessica, Noel, Amanda, and another friend, plus Daniel’s Aunt Lorraine, Uncle Phil, and their five kids. So I guess she got a lot of attention. They said she didn’t really like the feeling of the sand between her toes, and they took her out to the waves, which she wasn’t terribly excited about. And once a cold wave hit her, that was all she wanted to see of the ocean. . . Maybe next time, we can build sandcastles together or something. . .

She was wiped out by 10:30 p.m. when they brought her home. She lay on the changing table, eyes drifting shut, calling out weakly, “Dadda? . . . Dadda? . . .”

A typical July evening

9:48 PM me: micah won’t stop screaming

just so you know before you get here
Daniel: I’m sorry.
9:49 PM me: i think his tummy hurts but i’ve burped him all i can
i don’t know if i should just let him cry and get things done or hold him
9:50 PM he screamed a lot in the early evening, so i held him
then finally he went to sleep
then the apnea monitor went off 3 episodes
so I woke him up, checking the stickies
now he’s been very upset
Daniel: Just love him. He’s your first priority.

Micah Is Home!

After 23 days in the NICU, our little Micah Kenyon came home late Friday night, June 27. Micah’s name means “Who is like Jehovah?” or “Who is like our God?” Over the past two months, dealing with pre-term labor, bedrest, an emergency C-section and a preemie in the NICU, I have been continually amazed seeing God’s hand in our lives and in Micah’s life. As we give a brief update on all that God has done, we also want to say thank you to so many of you, who have faithfully prayed for us. We have felt your prayers and known God’s grace in a deep way during the past few weeks.
Last month at this time, I had no idea what the month of June would hold—I was psyching myself up for bedrest until June 26! But God knew.
Psalm 139 says, “. . . in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.” This passage has filled me with an overwhelming awe of God, and at the same time, it has been an incredible comfort! Micah was not seven weeks “early” in God’s book. God knew that Micah would be born at 32 weeks and 6 days. God knew he would spend three weeks in the NICU and come home a healthy 5 lb. 6 oz. baby boy! Who is like our God?
Initially the neonatologist told us that getting off tube feedings and learning to bottle-feed while holding (and gaining) weight would be the last “hurdle” before Micah’s discharge. In the end, his continued heart rate drifts and breathing irregularities were what kept him there the last week. The neonatologist has prescribed daily doses of caffeine citrate for his heart rate drifts, and he will be on an cardiorespiratory monitor for the next few months. At this point, it seems to be an issue of immaturity, which he hopefully will outgrow before he comes off the monitor. He has had only two apnea/brady episodes since coming home, neither of which required intervention.
Again Psalm 139 has been a comfort. God knew, before Micah was born, that his lungs would be strong enough he would not need to be on oxygen. God also knew that his apnea/bradycardia episodes would continue, requiring the caffeine and the monitor. None of this is a surprise to God!
As I hold Micah, I reflect:
“God, you formed Micah’s lungs. His heart. His “inward parts,” the psalmist says.
“You ‘knitted’ Micah together in my womb.
“Nothing about Micah was hidden from You, when he was ‘being made in secret, intricately woven.’
“He is wonderfully made. . .
“Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well!”
And in awe, I say, “Who is like our God?!”

Satisfied in His Steadfast Love

14Satisfy us in the morning with your steadfast love,
that we may rejoice and be glad all our days.
15Make us glad for as many days as you have afflicted us,
and for as many years as we have seen evil.
16Let your work be shown to your servants,
and your glorious power to their children.
17Let the favor of the Lord our God be upon us,
and establish the work of our hands upon us;
yes, establish the work of our hands!